Sunday, October 29, 2006

Weekly Cry

My weekly cry is scheduled on Sundays at about 8:45. That is when the home is revealed to its new owners on Extreme Home Makeover. This week, the crew went to Gladbrook, IA.

I used to play against Gladbrook-Reinbeck in most sports when I was in highschool. It's pretty strange to see it on a national TV show!

My sister?

Yes, this is Amber for Halloween this year! Love the unibrow! If you look closely, you'll see sideburns too ;-) Posted by Picasa

Thursday, October 26, 2006

New addiction

My newest twisted addiction is to "Ugly Betty." What a stupid show. For some reason it keeps me coming back for more. Maybe it's because it is on right before Grey's Anatomy which I cannot miss. Maybe it is because that is about when I get Nora down for bed and I'm so tired I just have to plop on the couch.

Dunno. Just another waste of time. Idle minds...yikes

Last Pill

I took my last pill on Monday...jungle-rot toe pill that is. I've been taking Lamisil for the past three months to help kill the "jungle-rot" in my left big toe. This has been Brian's pet name for my toe for the last ten years or so. I finally decided to do something about it.

I thought about taking a before and after picture, but alas, you will be spared. The toe is almost clear, and this weekend I am going to get my first pedicure since starting the medication.

YIPEE!

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

She got me thinking...

I just read my girlfriend Tamira's post about her thoughts on why we have so much violence in our society and schools today. Her reasoning revolved around the social caste system that we have in our country and the messages we (teen-age girls, primarily) are getting from the media that being mean and nasty to each other is acceptable.

Here is what I responded to Tamira's post:

I'm not sure that it is the caste system, that we ignore that we have in this country, that is to blame. That system has been in place for YEARS and kids didn't come to school with guns twenty years ago like they are now.

I think we live in a society where it is completely acceptable to act on your every whim. I think that is why we see so many more men fucking little kids and why I have more students mouthing off to adults. For some reason, it is now acceptable to act on all the things that go through your head rather than letting them do just that, go through your head.

I have a student that is in third grade and was just hospitalized for bi-polar disorder. He has beat me up more times, in the last month and a half, than I'd like to mention. I don't think that what would have happened to this child twenty years ago is acceptable, but how far to we have to let kids go before we put a stop to it or get them the help that they need?

Why isn't it ok to say no to things that are wrong anymore? "Oh, that is just how he is expressing himself" or "She can't help it, she has a chemical imbalance" or "People can do what they want to in private."

I think the pendulum has swung too far and we are accepting of unacceptable behaviors because we have to be PC. I had to be very careful in how I dealt with this child, not only because he has a very severe disorder, but because the school district was scared that his parents were going to sue them. I couldn't always do what I thought was right because I had a little director of special ed sitting on my shoulder reminding me of what could happen.

This leads me to my next question, why do I keep doing what I do? At this moment, I don't have an answer for you. I enjoy being around children and helping them succeed. What I can't take anymore, are the politics that surround the public schools and the parents that push me over the edge. First, I understand that there will be politics in any job that I may hold in the future, I'm just sick to death of the ones in my field. Secondly, when did it become completely acceptable to go into a school and tell the teachers exactly how they should teach teach your kid?

Seriously, I don't tell our accountant how to do my taxes! I give her my input, but trust that she knows more about it than I do. I've gone to school for 6 years and taught kids for almost 9 years. I think I know what I'm doing by now. All I ask for is a little faith in my knowledge and experience. I understand that you know your child best, as one parent justified a few weeks ago for making rude comments to me. However, I know a little about how to teach too.

That said, what else would I do if I didn't teach? I'm sure teaching students with special needs is a bit like teaching adults with short attention spans. I'm also quite confident that I could get just about any organization organized quickly. The problem is, would it feel as worthwhile at the end of the day?

Sunday, October 22, 2006

Color and Mountains

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As of Tuesday...

We officially own a home in the state of Washington. The fucked up thing about owning our home on Tuesday is that we can't go into it until the following Wednesday! The strange real estate laws here allow people to put a period of time in the sales contract allowing for extra packing a moving days. It is a very anti-climatic experience to say the least.

The really sucky thing is that Brian is going to be in China when we can actually get into the house. He is leaving on Wednesday and returning on November 4th, the day before we have to rip out 700 sq. ft. of floors to have wood floors put in the next day. Hope you get over your jet lag quickly, honey!

Because I'm such a consumer whore, we will be using a service called 1-800-GOT-JUNK for our pick-up and removal of the old floors we are taking out. It's true. I called them today and they are actually cheaper then just taking all of the carpet and fake wood floors to the dump ourselves when you factor in the 20 miles to the dump ( at least a couple of times) , the fee to dump, and all the beer and pizza it will take to feed my dad and our friend who is going to help (and has the truck)! We decided this was the way to go rather than paying the floor guy an extra $700 to take it out and haul it away. Oh the joys of homeownership.
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Searching for Color

Today, the Remfrey's went on a search for fall colors. Maybe it was to explore our new surroundings a bit more, or simply to escape a townhouse filled with boxes. The mountains we saw on our trip northeast of Seattle were very jagged and different from most of the mountains that we see on a daily basis. Much like something I would have painted as a little girl in Mrs. Adams' art class. Posted by Picasa

Monday, October 16, 2006

Thai tuna curry

My first creative attempt to use up the tuna was successful! This is a curry from Tom Douglas, one of the most famous Seattle chefs. He even beat the Iron Chef!

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Sunday, October 08, 2006

Tuna

Last weekend, in a moment of weakness, I purchased a whole albacore tuna. 14 pounds. I had to, it was fresh, locally caught, and $2.99 a pound! I gave a quarter of the meat to my sister in hopes of not having to eat tuna for the rest of October, but I'm still stuck. I've got most of it in the freezer at the moment.

The steaks we had on the grill were amazing, but I'm running out of ideas now. Any suggestions? I've already made tuna noodle casserole, so don't even try that one!

Disturbing

We saw a very disturbing sight yesterday as we were driving along a busy road in Bellevue. Out in the middle of a three lane street, two cars were stopped and their drivers were out throwing punches at each other. One man was probably in his 40's and the other in his 20's.

I don't think I've ever witnessed punch throwing in person. I've seen plenty of staged fights on TV or a boxing match, but never something so real. The worst part was what followed. Both men got back in their respective vehicles and started driving in the same direction. We were directly behind them in our car, albeit a bit distanced! The younger man was leading and stuck his hand out the window to indicate that he wanted the other guy to follow him to the left. The older man turned right as soon as he saw the hand signal. The younger guy pulled across four lanes of traffic to follow. All I could hope was that he would drive to the nearest police station for his own safety! Scary!

There was no car accident involved in this situation. It was obvious that the younger guy was at fault because a few people stopped their cars in the middle of traffic and walked over to the older guy and wrote a few things down. Hopefully they were all calling to police to report what they had witnessed. I wish I would have seen the precursor to all of this. Could it have just been road rage? Has anyone else seen something like this before?

Friday, October 06, 2006

Guilty Mommy

Nora has been on a low dose of an antibiotic since she had her terrible kidney infection last September. I started feeling like she was taking too much medication and have only been giving it to her every other day. Now I'm regretting that decision because she has an infection again. It is the first one in over a year, but I may have been able to prevent this.

What a shitty mom I am.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Computers

Do you know how many nights Brian and I sit next to each other on the couch on our respective computers? Is this normal? He's doing his thing and I'm doing mine. I guess this is just as bad as sitting in front of the TV all night while sitting next to each other as well.

I hate my computer at work. It is always making me read email that pisses me off. Can't we just make the email go away for a little bit? Sometimes I'm feeling really good about how things are going and then I read a flamer email. What ever happened to calling someone on the phone? Granted, in some situations, I'd rather communicate by email, but others require a conversation where inflections can be heard and facial expressions can be seen. A perfect example of this is what happened at school yesterday. A father of one of my students sent off a flaming email to all his kid's teachers and administrators with out having all the facts. Everyone in school was running around, sick to their stomachs because we thought the worst was going to happen. Needless to say, the parents had a miscommunication and things weren't as severe as we thought. Would that have all been avoided if he would have simply called the school instead? Now he looks like a jackass and has to eat his words that he sent to the whole world.

Having said all that, I don't know what I would do without email. It gives me time to think about what I say before sending it (so I don't look like a jackass)and it allows me to have questions answered quickly rather than having to start a telephone conversation with all the time consuming niceties that are expected. Sometimes I don't want to talk on the phone, but it would be nice to go through a school day without 75 to 100 emails to read and respond to!

Sunday, October 01, 2006

I now have a two-year-old

How did this happen? It seems just like yesterday that I found out I was pregnant!

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The park and lake near our house

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Our New House

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